How To Have Phone Sex

You might be considering phone sex for the first time, maybe you or your partner are not ready to get physically intimate yet, maybe you spend time apart and want to keep the fire burning, or perhaps you simply want to know how to maximise the pleasure of phone sex.

Of course, if you are calling a professional, she'll take care of you, and a lot of people actually call phone sex lines to pick up some skills and gain confidence in talking (dirty) to women.

Saying that, phone sex girls, although far more sexually open than a lot of other women, are still human, and respond well to certain things.

We've collected some tips on how to get the most out of any phone sex session, wether it's with a phone sex girl, a girlfriend or wife. We've also got some tips on how to see if a female friend is interested in talking dirty. We will tell you exactly what you can say to make the suggestion, but subtly enough so that you can back out and laugh it off as a joke if she's not interested.

Before you talk to someone you may end up having phone sex with, wether it's a friend, partner or phone sex operator, you need to make sure you set the mood.

• Make sure you're alone and that you won't be disturbed
• Don't have music or the television on in the background
• Male sure you're comfortable, and it's easy to loosen or remove your clothes as you sit back and relax
• Talk clearly, don't raise your voice, and don't speak too fast
  

7 Things to say to get things started, and make her wet.

A lot of women are not comfortable with the idea of having phone sex, especially if they have not tried it before. If you come on too strong, this will turn her off so take it slowly, let the conversation flow and try some of the following ideas to steer things in a naughty direction.

#1 So what are you doing right now? Her answer will tell you a lot. She may say something flirtatious back to you. If she does, this is a green light to do the same right back. More likely though, she'll say something mundane, or just say she's doing nothing at all. From this question you can find out if she's alone, getting ready for bed, bored or distracted. If she's bored, alone and still in the mood to chat you might be in luck

#2 What are you wearing? Obviously ask this question if it feels right to do so. If she is getting ready for bed, or lounging in the house alone then she may be wearing something comfortable. in this case you could say something like, sounds like it would be nice to snuggle with you. She may say something more flirtatious at this point. If she says something obviously sexy, then tell her to be careful, otherwise you will get excited.

#3 What would you wear if you wanted to really turn a guy on? If the conversation is still going, she must be flirting with you by now. Get her talking about what she wears if she wants to attract attention when she's out. Also what she likes would wear in private if she wanted to turn a guy on. If she's still flirting, then the conversation could get naughty at any moment now. Talk about what else she likes to do to turn a guy on.

#4 Ever had a massage from a guy? Talking about touching, fingertips running over skin, where those fingers might go will be a definite turn on. Talk about running fingers over her neck and shoulders, continuing down her back. Ask her where she likes to be touched.

#5 Tell her that she's had an effect on you but don't say what exactly. Things are getting flirty but it's still good to take it slow. If she's still responding to these more suggestive comments, then you can start to get more direct.

#6 What would you make me do if I were there right now? She's flirted, she knows that you are aroused, and if she's still engaged in the conversation then she's probably turned on herself. Time to get to the point.

#7 Did you make me hard on purpose? I can't believe you've had that effect on me just by talking. All pretence is gone, it should be safe to tell her that you are hard. Ask her what she'd do to help if she were there. Suggest that she join you in touching herself.

Of course, it might not get this far on a first try. Or she might blow you off (not in a fun way) at the first suggestive comment. If you start out subtle enough though, you'll be able to pass your early comments off as banter.

How about phone sex lines? How do I get started?

The best thing about a phone sex line is that all the women who answer the calls are there to have phone sex. That's what they do, and they enjoy it. These girls are human though, and if you take the time to turn your phone sex partner on, you might have a better time.

You can approach this a little differently to having phone sex with a friend or a partner. For a start, you both know exactly what you've phoned for, so there's no chance of her being shocked when you say something that's sexually suggestive. Of course these girls will help you out by moaning, talking dirty, and helping you to shoot your load, but if you want to make sure she gets wet for real, then there are some things you can say if you're willing to take the extra time. This is also good practice.

#1 Wow, you sound very sexy. Compliment her voice early. Tell her you find it sexually exciting. This sets things off to a good start without resorting to thinks like "I'm hard as hell and I want to fuck your pussy". Save that for later.

#2 How do you like to be seduced? Ask her what a guy has to do to turn her on. Listen to what she says, if she talks about kissing, ask about where but don't go straight for tits and pussy right away. Talk about her neck, shoulders, inner thighs etc.

#3 Use what she's told you to make some suggestions. Make sure you pick up on some of the things she's said when you've asked her how she likes to be turned on. If it's fingertips across skin, tell her that you'd love to feel her soft skin under your fingertips. If she's mentioned kissing, tell her you'd love to kiss her neck, and would she like to feel your fingers running up her inside leg while you did this.

#4 If she tells you she's turned on or wet, tell her you want to taste it. Talk about using your tongue to tease her gently, then ask if she likes a tongue teasing her while your fingers explore. Keep it all about her. You might be hard as hell right now, but the more you talk about her arousal and pleasure the better.

#5 Ask her how many times she likes to cum. Suggest that she let you make her cum first, so all your attention is devoted to her pleasure. Maybe she'd like to cum with your tongue and fingers doing all the work before she pays some attention to your hard dick. You can continue to tell her what you'd like to do to her, taking what she's said about how she likes to be pleasured into account and making reference to it often. Make it personal, tell her that you're sure she looks so sexy when she's turned on like this.

#6 Listen to her cum. You should be able to tell if this is for real. After her breathing slows, tell her that listening to her orgasm is a huge turn on. Tell her that you're rock hard. Ask her if she wants to play with your cock.

#7 Now it's your turn. Make sure you let her know that you are rock hard and you want to cum with her. Now she'll really want your cock, and hopefully she'll be turned on enough to tell you exactly what she's going to do with it. Don't be afraid to tell her that you are about to cum.

If you've succeeded, you've probably just had great phone sex. Congratulations! Make sure you don't just hang up when you cum. You've put in some effort, spend a couple of minutes while you both relax, and tell her how good it felt. Get her extension number and find out when she's online, and you could be on to a great thing.